I heard this man give a speech on interpersonal relationships and how social forces have affected the male-female dance, and it was one of the most insightful and helpful evenings of my life. He really knows his stuff. But to hear him talk in front of a group is only to scratch the surface of what is going on in this man's mind. When I called to get personal advice, I was just overwhelmed at the volume of knowledge and his ability to see various cultural forces at work in my relationship. I am so glad for the day that I caught him speaking in the library, and for having the opportunity to have him advise me on my own current relationship. Thanks JJ!
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He's the best, most sensible man I've talked to , to give advice on how to deal with a man's behavior! Thank you, JJ, for a comforting converstaion, and giving me a ray of hope in this volatile situation with him.
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JJ is very knowledgeable....I can't recommend him enough, seems to be well educated in this field and he can give you tips and advice you can work with. Takes time to get to know your situation and really gets to the heart of the matter fast.... Thank you JJ
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I have learned so much - like a great mentor!
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He was direct, gentle and helpful, with no sugar coating so it felt like genuinely real insight into man's mind. As well as helpful tips on how to deal with the guy in the future. I felt he was able to tap quickly into the core issues and give a real assessment of the relationship. Also, he seemed savvy and in touch with today's dating and relationship world, which is important.
I am a relationship expert both by experience and training. Our culture teaches self-centeredness, suspicion, power struggles, feminism, and dozens of other maladaptive attitudes and behaviors. To have any hope at all of a long-term relationship, we all have to unlearn what Oprah has taught us.